ah yes, but why? I must admit, it's a sexual identity I can't get my head around. maybe it's just the leo in me, but it makes me cringe when I see someone humiliated or degraded...
I've asked myself this several times. I can't come up with a completely satisfactory answer.
I see it as an offshoot of the standard submissive personality.
Now that I'm older and can examine my own sexuality more critically, I kind of see it as being privy to a male orgasm as up close as possible. It provides a different sense of ejaculation that one does not get when engaging in fellatio, for example.
I also personally enjoy watching my partner engage in self-pleasure, so a facial is a combination of getting to watch that as well as being involved in an extremely intimate way.
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Date: 2004-02-21 11:04 am (UTC)Re: *whistles innocently*
Date: 2004-02-22 07:01 am (UTC)I must admit, it's a sexual identity I can't get my head around.
maybe it's just the leo in me, but it makes me cringe when I see someone humiliated or degraded...
Re: *whistles innocently*
Date: 2004-02-22 07:16 am (UTC)I've asked myself this several times. I can't come up with a completely satisfactory answer.
I see it as an offshoot of the standard submissive personality.
Now that I'm older and can examine my own sexuality more critically, I kind of see it as being privy to a male orgasm as up close as possible. It provides a different sense of ejaculation that one does not get when engaging in fellatio, for example.
I also personally enjoy watching my partner engage in self-pleasure, so a facial is a combination of getting to watch that as well as being involved in an extremely intimate way.
I guess it's just a matter of perspective.
Re: *whistles innocently*
Date: 2004-02-22 07:57 am (UTC)thanks for sharing :)
I think I understand a bit better now.